People who know me well know that I kid a lot. The Ilocana and I had a great time in Cagayan de Oro giving talks recently. My friends Dr. Alan Melicor and Chris Barrameda fetched us from the airport and they must have noticed how many people recognized me. Chris thought about this deeply and then asked me a pointed question: “Francis, how do you keep yourself from being proud as I am sure the temptation for you is great!” I looked at him and said, “Chris, it’s so hard to be humble when you’re great like me!” He frowned and then we all broke out laughing as he realized I was kidding. And then I offered an advice. The best way to deal with pride is to develop a healthy sense of amnesia. Whatever the accomplishments are, good or bad, just move on to the next task at hand knowing that we have done our best and now God will do the rest.
This story that is credited to anonymity delivers the lesson. Read the words carefully and then think through it:
Mother’s father worked as a carpenter. On this particular day, he was building some crates for the clothes his church was sending to some orphanage in China. On his way home, he reached into his shirt pocket to find his glasses, but they were gone. When he mentally replayed his earlier actions, he realized what happened; the glasses had slipped out of his pocket unnoticed and fallen into one of the crates, which he had nailed shut. His brand new glasses were heading for China! The Great Depression was at its height and Grandpa had six children. He had spent $20 for those glasses that very morning. He was upset by the thought of having to buy another pair. “It’s not fair,” he told God as he drove home in frustration. “I’ve been very faithful in giving of my time and money to your work, and now this.”
Several months later, the director of the orphanage was on furlough in the United States. He wanted to visit all the churches that supported him in China, so he came to speak one Sunday at my grandfather’s small church in Chicago. The missionary began by thanking the people for their faithfulness in supporting the orphanage. “But most of all,” he said, “I must thank you for the glasses you sent last year. You see, the Communists had just swept through the orphanage, destroying everything, including my glasses. I was desperate. Even if I had the money, there was simply no way of replacing those glasses. Along with not being able to see well, I experienced headaches every day, so my coworkers and I were much in prayer about this. Then your crates arrived. When my staff removed the covers, they found a pair of glasses lying on top.”
The missionary paused long enough to let his words sink in. Then, still gripped with the wonder of it all, he continued: “Folks, when I tried on the glasses, it was as though they had been custom-made just for me! I want to thank you for being a part of that.” The people listened, happy for the miraculous glasses. But the missionary surely must have confused their church with another, they thought. There were no glasses on their list of items to be sent overseas. But sitting quietly in the back, with tears streaming down his face, an ordinary carpenter realized the Master Carpenter had used him in an extraordinary way.
You and I will never know how God is going to use us. All we need to do is to trust Him.
Most people think that they’ve got to have super ability in order to be useful but the key is to leave the ability to Him, meanwhile we offer our availability. After I speak people come to me to tell me how good I was and all I need to do is to remember that if God can use a donkey He can sure use me.
Not everyone agrees with me. That’s all right. I respect their opinion. Not everyone likes me. That’s all right. They do not know me well enough to do so. I have been praised, awarded and complimented, attacked, ridiculed and insulted and that’s all right. It comes with the package. But to stick to the mission of inspiring excellence and encouraging people I must. For that is what I have been called to do. And what about you? Have you discovered your mission and are you sticking to it? Do your best. You will never know how God will use you.
Beautiful anecdote, Francis! You are an inspiration because you keep it real. I hope that you continue to inspire people to pursue excellence and to live lives that encourage our people to see that WE are the answer to the problems we encounter daily. Our “being” and not necessarily our “doing.” God bless you always!
nice story sir Francis…. sobrang nainspire and na chalenge po talaga ako sa inyo yesterday… so i decided to find your website in the net.. this was the first story that I’ve read.. im not fond of reading, but i think i will love it now because of the inspiration you gave to me.. read, read, and read.. I hope that you continue to inspire more people. God bless..
Thanks for inspiring us. Please keep it up. I would like to also ask for your permission if i can post your inspiring messages in our church’s site.
Thank you and God Bless you more and more.
I’m bless to read your inspirational message.. keep it up, Keep the Lord Up High..!!!
What a powerful story! Thanks for sharing. I pray that the Lord will continue to use you as you minister to the people around your influence. God bless you even more! 😀
great story! i pray that you will keep on inspiring us. and continue to do so and never get tired of it because it helps a lot of people.
if not every one lyks u sir..8s olryt coz im telling u..never mangya2ri na hi2git ang #s ng mga taong disagree sau kesa saming very bilib sa inyo sir..sobra..very inspiring and very motivational..i agree that God made each one of us for a purpose..
God really works in a mysterious way, very recent my daughter had an asthma attack. in the morning while having breakfast, we asked her not to attend class anymore but she insist since they will have a quiz that day. At 10 am i we received a call from the school physician informing us that she had an attack and confinement to hospital is strongly recommended. have she stayed at home, for sure, situation will turn for worst since nobody will detect the condition. God is really Good! keep inspiring people. you are blessed!
Very touching! i don’t know you Sir and its the first time i viewed your website and I praise God for using you in sharing wisdom… to inspire people like me that I may always acknowledge His presence…. in everything i do and think …..God bless…
Sir, kainis ka. Yang mga istorya mo lagi na lang…nangungurot ng puso. Waaaaahhh!
Seriously, thank you sir for sharing these inspiring stories. “Availability”, i’ll take this to heart. Maybe through this, i’ll find my mission.
you are like instrument like guitar who gave an sympathy to amuse beyond trials facing juan dela cruz – fred ibañez jr. of bacolod
my self esteem went downhill since the bar results came out…i even hated HIM and asked why had HE allowed my failure. I guess his answers were delivered by friends and family members who constantly said that HE has a plan for me. i refused to believe them coz pain and pride had eaten me up. right now i am moved by your piece…i do hope ill find in my heart to listen to HIS MESSAGE, HIS PLAN FOR ME..
im experiencing tough times right now..after i read your article, i seemed to have heard God telling me “have faith”..thank you sir francis..
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Many of God’s great miracles (great once viewed from hindsight) have such nondescript beginnings that only a seeking and believing heart can accept them. I’m convinced this is because God is really so humble, yet playful, at heart that He does not want to announce that He is about to perform a stupendous miracle for one of His quietly trusting children. He is ever a gentle breeze blowing to the thunder, lightning and storm that is our unbelief.