Find Your Unique Why

July 19, 2010

A newsboy was standing on the corner with a stack of papers, yelling, “Read all about it. Fifty people swindled! Fifty people swindled!”

Curious, a man walked over, bought a paper, and checked the front page. What he saw was yesterday’s paper.
The man said, “Hey, this is an old paper, where’s the story about the big swindle?”

The newsboy ignored him and went on calling out, “Read all about it. Fifty-one people swindled!”

Looks like the boy in our story’s got potential. Potential to be a crook that’s what.

There is no short cut to success and you cannot cheat your way to being successful long term.

Some people are looking for the “One Big Thing.” Make a lot of money then retire. These people are not achievers. They’re simply lazy.
Denis Waitley says: For the high achiever, it’s natural to seek out challenging goals because he or she has an inner, intrinsic drive to succeed. And success doesn’t mean pet rocks, get-rich-quick schemes, lotto jackpots or chain letters. High achievers are looking not to receive, but to contribute, to give. They’re looking for problems that are personally satisfying to solve. Bill Gates, Oprah Winfrey and Warren Buffett, three of the wealthiest individuals in the world, eagerly go to work every day to face the challenge of solving a new and bigger problem. All could be playing Backgammon on a tropical island or two rounds of golf per day.

Since the accomplishment of a difficult task means more to the high achiever than any external motivation, it means that motivation will remain strong throughout his or her career. Think of how much stronger and more permanent such a motivation is compared to one that is extrinsic.

Suppose you choose a particular career because of the money. What happens when there’s more money in doing something else? You’re likely to abandon one path as soon as another possibility opens up, and eventually you’ll find yourself wondering what you’re really doing… maybe even who you really are.

Since there is no inner drive to stay on any particular path, the journey will be arduous, and motivation will tend to weaken whenever the external reward seems remote or out of sight. This is especially true with individuals who want a home business with high rewards and minimal risk.

Some people spend their entire lives wandering from one field to another, always looking for an easier way to find that pot of gold, never achieving a significant goal worthy of their inner potential.

I’ve met many people who fit this description. If they’re in sales, they move from company to company, from industry to industry, for one product or service to another. They are very hard to keep on your hand held electronic address book or in your directory of contacts because they are always either coming or going or starting another new business of their own.

When that doesn’t work, they get involved in sketchy enterprises, especially start-up-companies offering big, easy rewards, such as a wonder diet company where you can lose all the weight you want by eating anything you want and swallowing one amazing pill a day. They go from one Roman candle to another, from one “exciting opportunity” to another disappointment.

The problem is, money alone does not stimulate intrinsic motivation and therefore is a means, not an end. Money is like fuel for your car. It is not the destination. It is not the journey. It is only part of the transportation system. Make your “why” grab you by your very soul. You’ll never be disappointed for very long. And you’ll stay committed regardless of “stock market gyrations” or setbacks.

This week, find your unique “why” and pursue it with passion!
Discovering your unique why should be the purpose of your life. Letting your unique why serve others is what brings meaning to your life.

Billy Graham says “There is nothing wrong with men possessing riches. The wrong comes when riches possess men.” Guess what the Bible has to say: “People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction.”

So don’t fall into the trap.

This Post Has 12 Comments

  1. Dan

    Yes quick riches are dangerous!

  2. Jay

    Many thanks Sir, for this post… I have been planning to resign from my current job because the pay is low. But after reading this, I will probably still resign from my current job, but I will look for a much challenging work, rather than a higher paying job.

  3. Evet

    Why? I said to myself.

  4. Jojo Echeverre

    One great factor why majority of people want to get RICH QUICK? Its their AGE. LIFE IS SO SHORT. And they want to experience it right away. But they forgot the most important LAW in their LIFE. The COSMIC LAW. Its says, “WHAT YOU SAW IS WHAT YOU REAP.” MAJORITY, maybe spend their time doing what majority of people doing. “WORKING FOR THE MONEY.” Its not bad. But why not take a seat. Think of HOW MY MONEY WILL WORK FOR ME? MAYBE also, our school system contributes a lot on how we spend our TIME. That’s why we are rush finding solution to get RICH QUICK. People should go out, attend BUSINESS SEMINAR, and find inner selves. THANK YOU FRANCIS FOR INSPIRING US!

  5. Rico

    Finding my unique why… Now that’s a pursuit to begin a lifetime pursuit! I’ll do that this week, Francis. I’ll barrage heaven with prayer until God reveals the unique why He created me. Then I’ll pursue that with all passion!

  6. Dennis

    sorry jojo, but there was a typographical error there, what you’re thinking is ‘what you sow is what you reap’. sorry for that, but i like the article.

  7. Kris

    that’s a very philosophical pursuit – finding “why”. We’ll I hope to find it as well because I am currently looking for a more challenging job, more challenging pursuit in life!

  8. Alexcee Maala

    Very Right!!! It is written Money is not the root of all evil but the love of it.

  9. Ramel

    Wow! definitely right, let’s make money work for us not us working for money and let’s handle it properly. Nice article.

  10. litsy

    will wait for the next blog tackling the HOW in finding your unique WHY.. thanks.. =)

  11. Galwin

    Thanks for helping me not to fall into the trap. Thanks for sharing, will wait for more posts.

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