Be A Positive Persuader

July 22, 2013


A married couple was driving down the highway doing 90 kilometers per hour. The wife wanted to persuade her husband to agree for a separation.

The husband was behind the wheel.

His wife looked over at him and said,   “Honey, I know we’ve been married for 15 years, but, I want to separate.”

The husband said nothing, but slowly increases speed to 100 kilometers per hour.

She continued to persuade her husband.

She then said, “I don’t want you to try to talk me out of it, because I’ve been having an affair with your best friend, and he’s a better lover than you.”

Again the husband was not persuaded.

He stayed quiet and just sped up as he clenched his hands on the wheel.

She said, “I want the house.” Again the husband speeds up, and now was doing 110 kilometers per hour.

She said, “I want the kids too.”

The husband just keeps driving faster, and faster, until he’s up to 120 kilometers per hour.

She said, “I want the car, the checking account, and all the credit cards too.” The husband slowly started to veer toward a bridge overpass piling, as she said, “Is there anything you want?”

The husband said, “No, I’ve got everything I need right here.”

She asked, “What’s that?”

The husband replied just before they hit the wall at 130 kilometers per hour,

“I’ve got the airbag and you don’t”


One thing for sure here is that the wife is lousy when it comes to persuasion.

Speaker and motivator Charlie “Tremendous” Jones talks about persuasion. He says: All our lives we encounter persuaders. Those who were successful are largely responsible for the way we are. Because some of us are exposed to some positive persuaders we are drawn to become positive persuaders. I believe all successful persuaders are a result of having been successfully persuaded at some time in their lives. What a strange world it would be if there were no persuaders. Life is one continuous series of persuasions. At home it is the parent persuading the child, the child persuading the parent, the salesman persuading the prospect, the lawyer persuading the jury, the boy persuading the girl or the politician persuading his constituency. And so on and on.

To be a persuader you must be persuaded and in order to continue to grow we must practice the art of persuasion. The old saying, “Nothing succeeds like Success,” fits the persuader perfectly. The earlier in life you begin, the fuller your life will become. It is only in sharing and giving that we realize what we have, and we can give nothing better than persuading others to worthwhile goals, right motives and eternal values. I think it is safe to say that sometimes in our lives we will be persuaded to become positive persuaders seeking to give and share, or we’ll not be persuaded and spend the rest of our lives waiting for a break, taking and keeping. I hope these thoughts on persuasion have increased your awareness of the great privilege and obligation of the persuader. The world needs one more positive persuader. It is you?

Jones is right on the dot.  I’ve been featured in many of the country’s major business conferences and conventions and I have had people come to me and say, “I heard you speak 2 years a go and followed your advice. I read books, I exercise and I live my life correctly. I just want to thank you for changing my life.” It’s such a great thing.

I have had people write me e-mails or FB Messages saying, “I had forgotten God and my life began to spiral downwards. Thanks for reminding me to return to Him.”

And for me this is a great reward God has given me to confirm that what I am doing is within His Will and to encourage me to continue doing what I’m doing.

Be a positive persuader. Change lives.


The greatest witness to God’s Goodness is to live a life that shows it.

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  1. orville

    It’s me again Sir. I am actually new to your site so pardon me for commenting again. I just wanted to thank you again for this article. Just recently, I was browsing through the web for motivational speakers for obvious reason- to be motivated. I happened to get 2 speakers yet and one of those is you. I am a banker for almost ten years now and i felt bored already. I was just recently promoted as an Accountant but i still felt something is challenging me out. Even with this perceptions in my head, i still did my best in my job. But during my vacant time, i would usually listen or read something that would encourage me to go on. Materials such that of Joel Osteen, Bo Sanchez, Lloyd Luna, Robert Kyosaki, Larry Gamboa, and of course you Sir. I preffered to concentrate on your works due to your genuiness and humility among locally-based motivator/speaker. Then suddenly, i envisioned myself to one day be a motivator like you. I am a far cry speaker actually, i am shy, i cant get my thoughts in order, the thought of it just made me ask why did i ever wanted myself to become a motivator given my talent and skill in this area. Then maybe through this article, even in my own little ways will i be a persuader-not good yet, because the worl needs one. Thank you again Sir.

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