Every time I talk to students and ask them a question: “What is love?” invariably someone in the crowd would shout: “Love is blind.” And I will say that is the most stupid understanding of what love is.
Most “love” people know is selfish. The God-kind of love isn’t! Here is my take on this:
Love is what is left of a relationship after all the selfishness has been removed. And Louise Beal says it right:
Love thy neighbor as thyself, but choose your neighborhood.