We all desire relationships in which we are accepted, valued, and wanted. We desperately long for this esteem from our peers, but seldom experience the real thing. This is why teens succumb to peer pressure. This is why people enter into disastrous relationships wanting to be needed.
Inspire your people by appreciation and recognition. This goes a long way. Make their work life meaningful.
There is none so busy as those who do nothing.
No matter how busy people are, they always stop & talk about how busy they are. ![]()
People who talk too much about how busy they are, they’re not.
Busy people don’t even have the time to talk much because they work much. Work on but take a break every 90 minutes. This way you can rest, recharge and still maintain productivity. Takes a lot of discipline to do this.
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A friend gave me a beautiful text this morning: In today’s info age, you cannot UPLOAD love, DOWNLOAD time, GOOGLE all the answers in life….so LOG OUT of worldly deeds LOG ON to GOD. You will surely LIKE the life! FACEBOOK is ok, but spend more time with FAITHBOOK the BIBLE. Wise words indeed.
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When a storm comes at sea, a ship turns to face the tempest. If the vessel allows the storm to hit its side, it will capsize. If it turns its back to the storm, the storm will drive it wherever the wind blows. Only in facing the storm is the ship safe. Says: Robert C. Shannon. As we face them we grow in character and faith and perseverance. Do not run away from trouble. Welcome adversities. This is discipline!
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Get some exercise. Being in the office all the time is no excuse for lack of discipline. You can do office aerobics sitting right at your desk. It consist of jumping to conclusions, ducking responsibility, coming to grips with problems, stretching your boss’ patience, sidestepping difficulty, and pushing your luck. But this will never bring you to your success goals. Discipline is key to winning.
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Oswald Chambers says: “The remarkable thing about fearing God is that when you fear God you fear nothing else, whereas if you do not fear God you fear everything else.” What are your fears? You face your fears with faith that God is always bigger than whoever or whatever you are facing. Focus on excellence in whatever you do. The rich are not always godly, but the godly are always rich.
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Discipline is key to your preferred future. Debt, alcohol, silly risks, reckless relationships, too many nights out, too many missed classes. We have all seen people trade their dreams for a moment, a weekend, a habit, a promise, or a kiss. A little padding of expense, a little diversion of funds and they lose everything. Live a godly life and enjoy your future.
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An empty stomach would not let us rest until we put something in it. Unfortunately, an empty mind does not do the same.
I had a wonderful time this morning speaking to almost 400 young and excited people hungry to learn. I left the hall knowing that there is great hope for our country!
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A man went to visit a friend and was amazed to find him playing chess with his dog. He watched the game in astonishment for a while. “I can hardly believe my eyes!” he exclaimed. “That’s the smartest dog I’ve ever seen.”
“Nah, he’s not so smart,” the friend replied. “I’ve beaten him three games out of five.” Some people are never satisfied, never contented and they miss out the good things in life.
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Linda R. Dominguez is a Personal and Professional Coach and she writes a very interesting article entitled: “THE TOP 10 QUESTIONS and SOLUTIONS to HELP YOU with a CAREER or JOB CHANGE.”
We have all heard that if you do what you love, you never work a day in your life – or as Arnold Toynbee once said, “The supreme accomplishment is to blur the line between work and play.” The following ten points are a start on the journey of finding the career or job that will bring fulfillment.
1. Do you enjoy getting up in the morning and going to work? Are you experiencing the typical signs indicating that you are not enjoying your job as much as you did at one time, i.e., being unwilling to put in extra hours, not volunteering for projects, feeling elated on Friday afternoon and depressed on Sunday night?
2. Do you feel energized by your work? Do some parts of your work drain you? Create a list of those parts that energize you and those parts that exhaust you. The “energize” list is the list to build on — the “exhaust” list is the list you want to learn more about. (Is there a pattern with people or tasks? Do you want to do what you are currently doing, but for a different company?)
3. Are you happy at work?
If you are not happy, take a few minutes to determine why. Are you unhappy with the type of work you do, your company, or your manager? Or is your life lacking “balance”? What was it that drew you to this job in the first place?
4. Examine your strengths and interests.
Keeping on top of your strengths is critical – both for your value to your organization, and for your self-esteem. Know which skills you enjoy using the most — these things are what you want to do more of in your next job.
5. Speaking of skills, are yours up-to-date?
At least once a year, take a look at whether your skills are still state-of-the-art. Keep up with your industry, stay on top of new technology and trends in your field to stay current and competitive. If your organization offers tuition reimbursement, take advantage of the opportunity to update your skills with the benefit of financial support.
6. What job is right for you?
Relax quietly and picture your ideal work day one year from today. Describe a full day from morning until night. What are your surroundings? (Are you in an office building, a home based office, an RV?) Is your work culture high energy and fast-paced or is it slow and peaceful? What are your duties during your workday: creating, managing, building, technology-based, or helping others? Compare the results of your visualized workday with your current circumstances — the differences will help you identify the changes to make. Then, set a specific strategy to make those changes.
7. Looking for a lucky break in the job market?
People don’t get great jobs or careers from “luck.” Luck is just an opportunity for which you are fully prepared. When the next great opportunity presents itself, make sure you are prepared to accept the challenges.
8. Once per quarter, update your resume.
Everyone knows this one, but few actually do it. Keeping track of your recent accomplishments and new skills will help you when your performance review is due, and it will increase your self-esteem. If you wait until you “really need” a resume to create an update, you may find you’ve forgotten some significant points.
9. Set clear, concrete goals for change.
When we say, “I sure don’t want to be doing this a year from now,” we’ve made a statement of frustration — it’s a start, but not a goal. Try saying, “Next year at this time I want to be _______________.” Then set specific action steps to get there, including additional formal education, learning new skills, and expanding your network.
10. Take charge of your career.
When we don’t take advantage of the choices available to us, we become victims of circumstance. To find the right career and move ahead, we must start from the inside, learning what it is that we value, need, want and do well. Then, we must increase our personal bandwidth through constant learning, growing and a take-charge attitude about our careers. It’s a journey — value each step of the way.[1]
We only have one crack at life.
God has meant it for us to live life to the full. Are we doing it?
Take time to consider carefully today.
[1] This piece was originally submitted by Linda R. Dominguez, Personal and Professional Coach, who can be reached at LindaD@Executive-Coaching.com, or visited on the web at http://www.executive-coaching.com


